Springtime finally showed up! Yay! Also, Boo! It's too hot in the afternoons, my cork oak tree is pooping pollen everywhere, and my allergies are trying to kill me. I know that I will survive, but I also plan to spend time hiding indoors for the next week or two. That means my messy yard will just have to stay messy for a little while longer. It's fine, I'm just feeling self-imposed, overachiever guilt associated with not getting my yard work done in a timely manner.
Inhale. Exhale. Let it go.
In other Type-A, "Gift Child, Anxious Adult" news: I'm trying to rest this week. Last week was busy with my usual chaotic/stressful work, overtime associated with my usual chaotic/stressful work and working from home. It left me feeling like a zombie. So this week, in addition to avoiding outdoor chores that make me sneeze while my eyes itch and water, I am also NOT taking on more work inside my house. I'll still do my usual everything, but instead of cleaning the oven or mopping, or something extra special, I'm going to sit on my couch and take a virtual class for ME. I'm going to lie in the sun and read a book -but only for 20 minutes because it is hot out there and my pale skin will burn to a crisp- for myself. I'm going to sit here and compose this blog because writing makes me happy.
It's hard though, because I feel guilty for not doing something else... something that feels more like work.
Gah.
I'm trying to teach my kids that it's okay to rest. I think one of them gets it, the other one got my neuroses.
I had a meeting at the school today. Now both of my kiddos have 504 Plans and accommodations in place to help them be successful students. It's not that I need them to be perfect students or anything, I just need them to feel good about themselves while they are in school. I don't want either of my kids to feel like they are dumb or failures for struggling in a classroom setting. Hence the 504s to provide some protections so they can be successful little unicorns in a system that wasn't made with individuality in mind.
Still, I'm grateful that children with certain health diagnoses that affect their experience in general education are entitled to accommodations under the Americans with Disabilities Act. Did you know the freaking ADA wasn't even a law until 1990? It only took 214 years of our nation's existence to guarantee equal access to public places, public schools, and employment to disabled citizens. America is such a shit show. I'm glad the ADA exists now. Better late than never, I guess?
This society is good at cranking out little workers for capitalism and leaving behind anyone who doesn't fit the mold perfectly. That's probably why I feel so wrong sitting on my couch for an hour in the middle of a Wednesday.
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Currently Reading: In the Lives of Puppets by TJ Klune and Wayward Son by Rainbow Rowell (on audiobook)